The age old question that everyone asks… Umbrellas vs Softboxes – Digital Photography Tutorial

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Sure, you get different catch lights in the eyes with each.  Round ones with umbrellas, square or rectangle shapes reflections with softboxes.  But here the two are reviewed much more in depth by a real studio guru.  A great video by Jean Francois on the Layers Magazine website.